Just for today, I shall not judge!
There are usually more ways than one to do something. Knowing that; my way in not necessarily going to be the best way to accomplish all that needs to be done at any given time. As such, I surrender my desire to judge in a critical; unloving or self-righteous manner.
We are all unique expressions of the divine. Just because I perceive something or someone to be ugly, dull or pointless does not make it so. Everything in life has a purpose. It is in knowing what that purpose is that we see the true meaning and beauty in things.
Just for today, I shall be forgiving!
No one is immune from making mistakes. Least of all myself! That is all the reason I need to be a little more forgiving to others when they stumble, fall or lose their way along their own life path. Mistakes teach us all valuable lessons - one of the most important being that forgiveness is the best gift we can ever give ourselves; so today I happily bestow upon myself the gift of forgiveness.
Just for today, I shall be thankful!
Despite my seeming disappointments and not having everything my heart desires; I am thankful for the many things I do already have. Things such as my health, people that love me, a roof over my head and the strength that Spirit provides me in time of great need. Too often we can't see the woods for the tress; so today I will look for all the blessings I already have in my life rather than what I feel I am missing or deserve but don't yet have.
Just for today, I will nourish my soul!
I will do this by prayer, meditation or inner reflection of some kind. The soul, much like the roots of a tree, needs sustenance and nourishment if it is truly to grow and flourish as much as it's meant to. I will also do this is by anonymously helping out someone around me without being found out as well as doing 3 things I really don't want to simply because I know that in so doing, I will make a positive difference in my own world as well as in the world of others with whom I come into contact with.
Just for today, I will be agreeable!
I'll do this be looking my best; even if I'm only sitting at home on my computer all day. I'll dress good, look good and feel good doing it. I'll be courteous, polite and caring whenever I talk to someone I meet or over the phone. Making a point to "really" listen to whatever it is they are telling me and will show them genuine concern. I'll do my best as I do this not to criticize, find fault or bemoan anything they say so that they leave me feeling better for having talked to me to begin with.
Just for today, I will make time for self!
I'll make a point today of setting aside some special time for myself when I can think about all the things that have happened to me of late so that I can work out how best to proceed with all the things that are going on in my life right now. I'll also take a closer look at my own wants and needs and try to work on fulfilling as many of those as I can without taking on too much at one time. I'm fully aware that with deep inner reflection and self awareness I am far more able to get a handle on what needs done in my life. So today I am going to make a Scared Space in it to do just that.
Just for today, I will show love!
I know that there are lots of people in my life that I love deeply but fail to remind them of that love as often as I should. The people I live with day in and day out. Friends I haven't heard of or seen in longer than I care to remember. My neighbors, colleagues and friends. But just for today; I will show them that I do indeed love and appreciate them being a part of my life. No matter how small or seemingly insignificant the may play a part in it. Be that through a phone call or long overdue email; a surprise gift or other act of affection. Even if I can't come out with the words, I will make an effort to find another way to show them that they do make a difference, have not gone unnoticed and are loved beyond measure.
Just for today, I will be unafraid!
I will enjoy life as much as I can today without worrying about what other people think of me. I'll let my inner beauty shine bright like a beacon for all to see - knowing all the while that I have much to give the world and have nothing to be afraid of. After all, fear is nothing more than false expectations that appear real. I will talk to people I've always been too afraid or shy to talk with. Have the courage to make my opinions heard and make them count; as well as be willing to try things I've always wanted to have a go at but was always to afraid to incase I messed things up. Courage favors the brave; so today I will be brave and unafraid!
(C) Chares Anthony McFaulds 2011